It's not a coincidence

It's Destiny

You didn’t just end up here. You were led.

Maybe you saw my testimony.

Maybe we crossed paths in real life.

Maybe you were just scrolling and something made you stop.

However you got here—I’m glad you did.

Because this isn’t about me. It’s about the One who rescued me.

I’m Destiny Whited. I’ve been a lot of things in life, but above all—I’m a follower of Jesus.

I’m just someone who said yes to healing, freedom, and purpose… and now I help others do the same.

This site is more than a platform. It’s a place to find truth, tools, and transformation.

If you came here looking for truth, clarity, connection, freedom, or your next step—you’re in the right place.

You’ll find real stories here.

You’ll find true freedom and real healing here.

And if we talked about Jesus… head to the "Now What" page.

Because that conversation didn’t end—it just started.

Let’s walk this thing out together.

It's okay to have questions.

You Might Be Wondering....

Can This Woman Really Help Me?

Fair question.

Personally? I can’t.

But the God in me absolutely can.

I don’t come with all the answers.

I come with experience, scars, a surrendered yes—and a deep belief that God still heals, restores, and sets people free.

If you’ve been holding it together on the outside but falling apart on the inside

you don’t have to keep doing that. Not here.

Below are a few things people often ask before taking that next step.

If your question isn’t listed, ask it anyway.

This space is for real people, real questions, and real freedom.

I’m not sure what I need, but I feel drawn here. What should I do first?

Start by taking a breath—and honoring that tug.

You don’t have to have it all figured out to take a step.

Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, curious, or quietly hopeful… that pull you feel matters. And I believe it’s God drawing you closer to healing, clarity, and truth.

A good place to begin is by visiting the Now What page—especially if you’ve been impacted spiritually or emotionally by something you’ve seen, heard, or felt.

You can also head to the Let’s Connect page and send a message or request a clarity session.

No pressure. No performance. Just a step in the right direction.

What is a "Clarity Session"?

A one-on-one conversation to assess where you are, what you’re carrying, and how I can best serve you.

We’ll talk through your goals, your pain points, and whether a deeper process (like a Vent Session, coaching, or group work) is the next step.

If you’re unsure where to start—this is the place.

Clarity leads to breakthrough. Let’s start here.

V.E.N.T.
1:1 Coaching Sessions

A 6-Week Coaching Experience with Destiny Whited

Voice. Evaluate. Navigate. Transform.

This isn’t just a coaching program—it’s a safe, sacred journey back to the real you.

Over the course of six weeks, we’ll break cycles, gain clarity, process pain, and invite God into the deepest places of your story.

Who do you help?

I help people who are ready to be real. If you’ve been through spiritual abuse, identity loss, religious performance, or you’re just tired of faking fine—this space is for you. Whether you’re deep in your faith or barely holding on, I meet you where you are.

Do I have to be a Christian to work with you or benefit from this?

No. But I won’t water down the fact that everything I do flows from my relationship with Jesus. I don’t push religion—I point people to real freedom. And that freedom changed my life.

What kind of coaching do you offer?

I offer trauma-informed, spirit-led coaching for people navigating identity, healing, and purpose. This isn’t surface-level stuff—it’s soul work. Group coaching is also available seasonally.

Can I book you to speak, sing, or share your story at an event?

Yes! I’m available for ministry bookings—including speaking, worship leading, testimony sharing, panel participation, and podcast interviews.

I also speak motivationally at schools, businesses, and community events on topics like:

• Purpose & identity

• Self-esteem & confidence

• Emotional intelligence

• Faith & post-traumatic growth

• Teamwork, collaboration, and learning how to work together in healthy ways

Every invitation is prayerfully considered.

You can submit a request on the Let’s Connect page.

Do you offer trainings for praise and worship teams in churches?

Yes, I do. I offer training for worship teams, music ministries, and leaders who want to go deeper—not just vocally, but spiritually.

My sessions cover:

• Leading from a place of wholeness, not performance

• Creating a healthy worship culture

• Understanding the weight of your sound

• Spiritual posture, sensitivity, and surrender

• Team dynamics and flowing together in unity

If your team is ready to grow in both skill and spiritual depth, I’d love to connect.

Submit a request on the Let’s Connect page and tell me more about your ministry.

Do you offer trainings for corporate offices and organizations?

Yes, I do. I lead custom trainings for teams, leaders, and organizations on topics like:

• Emotional intelligence

• Effective communication

• Healthy collaboration

• Trauma-informed leadership

• Identity, confidence, and purpose in the workplace

Whether you’re looking to strengthen your team culture or help your staff grow personally and professionally—I bring a message that’s both practical and transformational.

Interested? Submit a request on the Let’s Connect page and let’s talk about your needs.

Do you have any free resources?

Absolutely. From blog posts and devotionals to healing prompts and videos—you’ll find tools created for real people on real journeys. Check out the Resources tab or subscribe for exclusive content drops.

Do you offer in-person sessions or only virtual?

Most sessions are virtual for accessibility and privacy, but I’m open to in-person opportunities for retreats, events, or intensives by request.

What is “The Vent”?

The Vent is a safe space where we don’t just vent horizontally—we take it vertical. It’s where real stories meet surrender. You’ll find honesty, healing, and Holy Spirit here. Whether it’s through video, community, or raw conversations—The Vent exists so you can finally exhale.

We don’t just vent to feel better—we vent to release what’s heavy and receive what’s holy.

Do you have any books available?

Not yet—but they’re coming.

I’m currently writing and preparing resources that reflect my story, my healing, and what God has taught me about identity, freedom, and transformation. When the time is right, they’ll be released.

If you want to be the first to know when books, devotionals, or digital tools drop, join the email list or follow along on social media. Trust me—you won’t want to miss what’s coming.

What if I’m still unsure?

Then take your time. This isn’t a sales pitch—it’s an invitation. Explore the site, check out a video, read a blog, or start a conversation. Just don’t leave the same way you came.